Male Anger and Sexual Addiction: Challenges for Shame Regulation

2 hours 27 minutes



Topics: Archetypes, Gender & Sexuality, Myth & Fairy Tale, Persona.

Male Anger and Sexual Addiction: Challenges for Shame Regulation

American society idealizes the shameless Hero and Prince.  Consequently, the regulation of feelings of embarrassment, humiliation and inadequacy is a particularly challenging task for males.  Rage/anger and sexual addiction are their attempts to avoid feelings of inadequacy and inferiority.   In this workshop participants will learn to identify the underlying shame that drives the Hero and the Prince.  They will learn to differentiate guilt from shame and primary shame from secondary shame.  Four different ways (personas) to not feel intense shame will be identified:  the Hero/Heroine, the Prince/Princess, the Masochist, and the Depressive.  Anger and sexual addictions are part of each style.  We will also consider how each is an attempt to heal the shame it covers and how eros energy is critical in the modulation of shame feelings.  A more contemporary ideal will be developed that will assist in the management of shame feelings for both males and females.

Audio Included: Include a free audio MP3 of the seminar.

PowerPoint: The PowerPoint slides for this seminar are edited into the video.



Learning Objectives
This video will help you to:

  1. Differentiate shame from guilt and primary shame from secondary shame.
  2. Describe four typical behavior patterns that avoid intimate vulnerability and healthy shame.
  3. Explain rage/anger and sexual behaviors as often shame driven.
  4. Discuss the unique bind for contemporary males around shame feelings.

© 2012 Arlo Compaan
℗ 2012 CG Jung Institute of Chicago

Additional information

Audio Format

1 MP3 File: 52MB.

Video Format

1 3GP File: 466MB


Compaan, Arlo

Arlo Compaan, PhD isa training psychoanalyst and a licensed clinical psychologist.  He was initially trained in pastoral psychology, which qualified him for the psychology license.  He is certified as a fellow in the American Association of Pastoral Counselors and is a member of the American Psychological Association.  He was trained and certified as a clinical member and an approved supervisor in marriage and family systems theory by the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists.  Most recently he was certified as a Diplomate Psychoanalyst in Analytical Psychology by the International Association of Analytical Psychology. He is currently the Director of Training for the Chicago Jung Institute’s Analytical Training Program and serves on the Board of Directors of the Institute.  He has been a co-director of the Jungian Psychotherapy Program.  He has workd as a psychotherapist for 35 years.  During that time he taught undergraduate psychology for 5 years and many graduate courses in psychotherapy field at different graduate institutions in the Chicago area. He served as an executive director of a non-for-profit counseling agency for 9 years and co-directed another couseling agency for 20 years. He maintains a practice in the Chicago Loop and in Frankfort, IL.  He provides supervision/consultation and analysis in his offices and by the internet. Education DIPLOMATE ANALYTICAL PSYCHOLOGY: C. G. Jung Institute of Chicago. (1997) PH.D. IN PASTORAL PSYCHOLOGY: School of Theology at Claremont, Claremont, CA. (1973) BACHELOR OF DIVINITY IN THEOLOGY AND NEW TESTAMENT STUDIES: Calvin Theological Seminary. (1968) B.A. IN PSYCHOLOGY/PHILOSOPHY/GREEK/GERMAN: Calvin College. (1965) Professional Organizations C.G. Jung Institute of Chicago International Association for Analytical Psychology American Psychological Association American Association of Pastoral Counselors Age Groups Adults Types of Treatment Individuals Specialties Trauma, Shame Dynamics, Male Issues Contact [email protected] 815-469-8876 (office) 815-735-5956 (personal) In-Person/Telehealth: Telehealth Only Main Office: 8977 Raintree Lane, Frankfort, IL 60423



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